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4 April 2006, Dawn Schmidt Ventimiglia @ 7:48 pm
Overcoming PTSD April 04, 2006,
Countdown to the Key West wedding…23 days! So much to do yet, even though it will just be John and I in a beautiful garden, with the photog and his wife, the notary. I am really looking forward to the trip, and to beginning our life together. My life today is a sign of the progress I’ve made living with PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).
So much has changed for me since the robbery in my store 3 years ago. Today is the anniversary of the day that an *sshole changed my life forever. When someone holds a knife to your neck, it is unbelievable how much information your brain processes at the same time. In retrospect, that is one thing that truly amazed me about the experience - the capabilities of our mind.
Due to closing my store (I couldn’t handle working there alone after the robbery), and hitting rock bottom financially and emotionally, and the PTSD from the robbery…I went through a couple very tough years. But with my family and friends support, I was able to begin the climb back out of the hole.
I’ve got a thriving painting business, airbrushing decals and art on motorcycles, and I am looking forward to starting life with this great guy by my side. He has been instrumental in helping conquer some very big fears. :)
I just want those who are suffering from PTSD or tough times to know that things CAN get better. After horrific experiences, it’s tough to remember that there is a gift waiting for you on the other side of your trauma. You just have to be patient and let it come when it is ready. Remember to do something nice for yourself daily, find one small thing of beauty each day. When you start to panic, say out loud, “stop”. Little by little, your situation will improve. Believe me, I know, because I was at the bottom. And if you KNOW someone with PTSD, remember to gently encourage them to step outside their “safe zone” in tiny ways, never force them into uncomfortable situations. Progress will come in small bursts, but it will come. Be patient.
Peace and LOVE,
Eclectic Dawn